Singapore Trip

We just returned from Singapore trip. It was second time trip for Joyce and Mary and the first time for the rest of us. Our purpose of trip was two fold: (1) medical check-up for Mary and me (Gil); (2) family vacation during this school break--Khmer New Year.

First of all Mary needed to have a progress check up for her possible "precocious puberty." She has grown so fast over the last year that made us concerned and take her to see a specialist in Singapore in Nov. last year. Doctor said she's in "early stage of early normal puberty" in terms of her development and wanted to monitor her growth to determine if she needed a hormone treatment. Mary is not ill or anything, but a concern is if she grew too fast now, she may stop growing too soon and become a short adult. Also psychological and emotional stress related to early puberty is another concern. Thankfully, according to doctor's visit this time her growth has slowed down a bit so at this time we don't need to make a tough decision whether to treat her or not. We pray her growth would not accelerate but normalize.

For me, I needed to have a check-up on two lumps under my arm pit. I discovered these lumps a few months ago. A preliminary scanning in Cambodia showed no evidence of lymph nodes but not conclusive about sarcoma--cancer. A recommendation was to see a specialist in Singapore and have a MRI. The doctor in Singapore casually recommended a biopsy rather. Then at the lab, radiologist said there is no visible "target" to do a biopsy which she said is a rare case and recommended MRI. Interestingly that was the SOS doctor's recommendation in Cambodia. I took and showed her report to the Singapore doctor. He apparently ignored it or didn't take it seriously. (Later a taxi driver told me if it was a Singaporean patient, the doctor could have been in trouble--possibly being sued). Anyway I went ahead with MRI. Result was the lumps were 6 cm long each but most likely benign (lipoma). But the doctor recommended a surgery to remove the lumps completely in a month or two. I need to make a decision soon and feel stress about it although thankful for being spared from worse situations.

We had a nice family time in Singapore. A lot of things are quite contrary to Cambodia. Spotless and orderly. Upscale and controlled. But I didn't want to stay any longer than a week. Well, we couldn't afford it anyway; things are so expensive. Materialism was at work. I don't think there is any other city in the world that has so many clusters of shopping centers. And restaurants everywhere you turn to.

We stayed at YMCA International Guesthouse. Highly recommend. Basic but adequate. Perfect location. Everything is nearby: Bus station. Food court. Shopping centers. Cinema. Museum, and Orchard Road Presbyterian church was right next so we worshipped there on Sunday. Very nice service. Kids really liked the zoo and Science center. Joyce's favorite was Botanical garden. I enjoyed food courts.

We are happy to be back to Cambodia though. Humble modest Phnom Penh airport was so welcoming and I felt home hearing people speaking Khmer. Riding Tuk-tuk on the way home, my senses were again stimulated and came to life. All the sights, sounds, smell and sticky air blowing my face. Yes, this is Cambodia. I'm home.

One thing I was reminded of in Singapore was the importance of leadership for any group or society. Singapore became independent in 1965 and faced many challenges as a diverse society with high unemployment rate and lacking natural resources. How did it become so stable and developed in relatively short period of time? A key was effective leadership of the first prime minister who set solid foundation for the entire society--current prime minister is his son who seems highly effective and respected as well. I'm sure it's not perfect but in my mind it's a contrast to Cambodian history which is filled with tragedies due to leadership failures in my judgment. But Cambodia survived, and its people spared. Now busy rebuilding the society. Please join me praying that many leaders with the Kingdom vision will be raised up and write up new history for Cambodia.

Here are some pics: http://picasaweb.google.com/suhmission/SingaporeTripApril2010#