Sunday, October 18, 2009

Focus On the Family in Cambodia?

We came to realize “family” as one of the most important ministry needs in Cambodia. For so many families are deeply scarred, broken and dysfunctional. We began to see the great needs in families and the need to address this issue in our ministry present and future. Recently we had opportunity to train leaders on this topic in two different occasions (Please see "Our Recent Newsletter" under "Our Personal Site" in this page).


Related to that, our househelper’s situation is quite common here. Smey is originally from a province and now living in Phnom Penh with her family. She has 3 grown up unmarried children. She and her daughter are only Christians and bread winners for family by working at expats’ home. Her husband is motorcycle taxi driver making a meager income. Two sons are not that helpful without any job. Smey also takes care of 3 young children of her deceased sister who died of sickness last year. Their father remarried and don’t care much about these children’s welfare. Smey is paying for their education and providing their needs. And recently one of Smey’s sons got into motorcycle accident and severely broke his leg. He’s receiving medical care which costs a lot for Smey. We feel for Smey. She lives a difficult life. Where does she find joy and comfort? Thankfully she has faith in Christ. We try to encourage her as best as we can. We visited her son both at hospital and her tiny house. We prayed for his recovery and new relationship with the Lord and with Smey (he has been a rebellious one). I was worried that he would be angry and bitter about his situation (he will be bed-bound for months). Later Smey told me his attitude is surprisingly different. He said “Sorry…Ma. Sorry…” That’s big. She said she’s been praying for him years. Maybe a prodigal son is returning or at least coming to senses. May God continue to restore many more families in Cambodia as a foundation for both church and society!

Gil's mom visited us in Sep

1 comment:

Unknown said...

That's a nice picture with your mom! I'm checkin out your blog, too! Thanks for leaving me a comment and for staying up on the needs out here!